So boys, here are five bulletproof ways to pick up on the fact that the girl you’re talking to isn’t trying to play games – she simply has no idea what she wants. Truth is, life isn’t like a fairy tale. Although Rapunzel may have spent every waking hour locked in a tower WAITING for her Prince Charming, us ladies of the 21 st century aren’t waiting around for anybody. In our heads, we pictured flowers and roses, but unless it’s the right time, even those things can’t sweep us off our feet. Having grown up with Cinderella and Snow White as our main gals, it was always all about Prince Charmings, fluffy ponies and happily ever afters.
Maybe we just don’t know what it is that we want. We blame boys for playing games and being a-holes, but then we push them away when they are nice. We cry a lot, sometimes for no apparent reason, we crave reassurance and then bat compliments away. I’m not saying that guys make it easy either, but I think I speak on behalf of the female population when I say we know and accept that we are difficult.
What happened to girls wanting the nice guy?Īnd then suddenly I realized, in a moment of complete clarity, that us girls make it really difficult for the guys. I often get asked by my male friends – what the heck do girls actually want? They say: if we give them attention, they call us clingy if we play hard to get, they call us game-players if we move forward, they pull back.
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